Ambitious girls and marriage [Archives:2005/879/Community]
BY SUHAYLA ALHEBSHI
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It is observed in the last decade that most ambitious girls are either not married or don't have the desire to. I reached to write this article through the ideas and visions I gathered from the people around me.
Naturally, men are created with the distinct of superiority. . Lots of them, especially in Yemen, imprison their wives at home and band them any right of job or further studying. They need a woman who is capable of sharing life with him, a person to whom they can trust, and a simple woman that will bring up their own family to the end of the life without many requirements or demands. This is what man wants.
However the ambitious girls don't want someone who burns them in life and stand a bar between them and their great ambitions. The ambitious girl needs someone who helps her to accomplish what she seeks for.
This kind of girls are either divorced, spinsters, or unwilling to have a couple. The psychological clash and misunderstand happens at homes as followed:
The majorities of this kind of wives don't appreciate man's feeling and keep over showing them their abilities until the man feds up. Or the other way round when the husband step by step encourages the wife for laziness and increases the loads over her shoulders until she feds up of the case and of her life and prefers to live alone and to achieve her hopes.
Both cases are false as they are created as a result of the absence of the ideal visions and moralities of the true meaning of family and life where the couple helps each other and both of them try to succeed the other to achieve a success in their lives. To live for the sake of great work and die for the same porous.
If nowadays' guys understand a great deal of these deep meanings, life would be happy for all. We didn't come here just to have a family and house and that's it. Also men didn't come here just to create their families and to go to their jobs until the brink of death.
Each person has something especial on him, and only by ambition we have to accomplish our rule in life. To leave in the earth useful deeds and great children so the new generation must fulfill what we started until the doomsday.
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